I was reading something earlier, it talked about soul mates and how there is that ONE special person out there to love you. I dont believe that.
Let me explain:
I believe in the concept of soul mates. In fact I believe that my husband and I are soul mates. However I dont think you have ONE person out there for you. I also believe that soul mates dont have to be your life partner. I think straight women can have female soul mates and straight men have male soul mates (Though they would probably not use that term) and that hetrosexual men and women can be soul mates and not be together or that homosexuals can be soul mates and not be in a relationship.
I think the term “soul mate” more entails the fact that you have a deeper connection with that person than with others. If there is only one person out there for you what happens if that person dies? Do you never remarry, if you do does that mean you dont love the next person as much because your soul mate died?
If for some reason Paul divorced me or something tragic happened, I would hate to think I could never find someone else. Would it be the same as Paul, no. No one would ever be the same. Does that mean I could never love someone else as much as I do Paul, I dont think so. It might take time, but there are lots of people whose significant other passes away or leaves- whatever the case may be- and they go on to find someone who they love just as much.
So as for soul mates, I think it is a real thing. It just doesnt mean that one person who you marry and spend you life with, that there is no one else you will ever have a connection with, that you only have ONE soul mate.
How does a mom get a day off? Why can’t I call in sick, I am sick- sick & tired of doing it all! I just want a few hours for myself.
I want to go to Target & shop for bras without my kids swinging from the rack, or pulling panties down & flinging them to the floor.
I want to go to Sonic & get a Diet Coke without having to A) buy the kids a drink they will just pour all over themselves B) explain to them the drink they are currently drinking is fine & they dont need a new one C) tell them that we just ate & that they are now EATING goldfish & do not need tater tots.
I want to go to the store without having to go to the bathroom 3 times, or look at toys, or re stack toys that they just pulled down.
I want to take a nap & go to the bathroom by myself- without worrying what they are destroying.
Is that a lot to ask?
Working on planning our trip to Disneyland, not sure WHEN we are going but probably around October. I REALLY want to go for Halloween Time. Because, well, what could be better than Disney & Halloween? Anyone have any tips or suggestions?
Today I am not feeling so super. I am depressed & crying. I dont want to feel this way but I do. I havent been on my anti-depressents in over a month because I am tired of being fat & the zoloft makes me gain weight, and gaining weight makes me more depressed- it’s a vicious, yet endless loop. So couple no zoloft with the fact that my husband changed jobs, is at work before God gets up & is ready for bed before the kids are & my stress levels are through the roof. Now his hours are changing & he will be working afternoons into the night so he wont be here for dinner & getting the kids to bed. So now Im stressing about how I am going to handle it all. Plus I work, I dont know how his work schedule is going to affect mine but I am going to see him almost never & my poor oldest child is going to be asked to handle more than her share of responibility.
I keep trying to tell myself “There’s a great big beautiful tomorrow, shining at the end of everyday” but it doesnt seem to be working…
“Sometimes, if you stand on the bottom rail of a bridge and lean over to watch the river slipping slowly away beneath you, you will suddenly know everything there is to be known.”
Winnie the Pooh quote
“You can’t help respecting anybody who can spell TUESDAY, even if he doesn’t spell it right; but spelling isn’t everything. There are days when spelling Tuesday simply doesn’t count.”
Winnie the Pooh quote
“Halloween is my kind of holiday. It’s not like those other stupid holidays. I don’t get pine needles in my paws. There’s no dumb bunny, no fireworks, no relatives. Just candy. Boom. You go out and you get candy. It’s as simple as that.”
“You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.”
Even a man who is pure in heart and says his prayers by night, may become a wolf when the wolfbane blooms and the autumn moon is bright.
Welcome to my blog. Be prepared for rants about what my kids did today, endless adorable stories about what my kids did today, never ending Disney talk & Halloween planning all year!
I am a happily married mom of 2 princesses & 1 prince. We also have a dog & cat.
I love all things Disney, especially Pooh Bear! We vacation at Disney as often as we can, I work for The Walt Disney Company, I just love everything about it! My favorite Disney Movie is probably Toy Story -all 3:) My favorite princess is a tie between Snow White & Ariel, Rapunzel is creeping in on them too! Tiana is also poised to be runner up! Best villian goes to Evil Queen. But Pooh tops them all!
I also have an affinity for Halloween. I like spooky stuff (In fact SPOOKY is my favorite word!) and plan for Halloween all year. I love how it brings out the kid in me, dressing up, getting candy, scaring people, decorating & having a great party!
Have a magical day!!